TRUST ... IS LIKE CHOCOLATE ...

Chocolate.Sweet.Tempting. Delicious.Surely you can't resist .Uhm ...

Now ,imagine you're holding a heart-shaped chocolate.Hold it right in the middle of your palm.You're not gonna eat it but you will just hold.Imagine it's melting due to the warn temperature caused by "global warming".The chocolate lost it's shape,right? Now that the chocolate has melted,do you think you could put it back? Back to it's shape? I don't think so ...

It's sort of like trusting,right? Once it's gone, you can never make it back. Once a person you trust so much,the person you tell all your secrets, experiences, embarrassing moments,or even your crushes,betrays you, you feel that you can never trust that person again.Maybe you will be able to learn to trust him o9r her but not the same as before.Trusting someone is pretty hard.For me,it only leads to three results. The first choice is that getting betrayed, then hurt and then,hating that person 'til he/she is dead. The second one is getting betrayed then hurt and then,trust again but not completely. The last and final choice is never getting betrayed at all.

Of course,we can't avoid trusting other people.I mean ... who would want to spend all of his or her life all alone and friendless.That's just how life is, like loving and getting hurt.Right now,I have a lot of friends.They are friends who probably know all my secrets,Friends that
I spend all my time with.I trust them so much ... If anyone of them does decide to become a snake and bite my back ... OUCH .... THAT HURTS ..

Nevertheless,if someone does break your trust,didn't just sit there and cry like a sissy little kid. Stand up and approach the person.Try to talk him/ her and tell him/her how you feel.Don't judge yet.Give that person time to explain.If she doesn't listen to you, it's time for you to slap his/her face and tell him/her, "THE HECK WITH YOU!".